Can you point to some examples of this actually working on social media?

We've had the sort of social media you've been talking about for well over a decade now, so there should be plenty of success stories, were you right.

I spent many, many years, trying with my love, compassion, rationality, and research skills, trying to bring people I cared about back to reality.

I never even managed to anger them, because I'd write my rebuttals and then edit them to be super-nice. They'd just laugh at me and call me a deluded fool who supports pederasts and medical murderers (i.e. "vaccinationists").

So why don't you identify any success stories of your strategy?

Occam's Razor says the simple reason that you have no examples of your idea working, is that it doesn't work.