Given that you are lacking in compassion or empathy, have you considered that perhaps being a minister is a poor career choice?

I note that you're an "interfaith" minister which means you gave yourself your own title of Reverend. Audacious!

While I'm not a big believer in organized religion, the vetting process does remove at least some of the fakes and psychopaths.

Have you thought of a career in law enforcement or corrections, perhaps?