"I don’t want the responsibility of hurting somebody like all of my people were hurt" is NOT what a "warrior" would say. (You must be an American, because you see being a warrior as the highest good.)

Let's get this whole story straight.

A group of people has just spent four years screaming hatred and lies at everyone else and being completely unwilling to have a discussion based on facts, instead claiming that their opponents literally fuck children.

And they have never apologized for any of it - forget trying to make amends, when they lost they actually tried to foment a violent revolution, and took over the Capitol, killing five people, smearing their own shit on the walls, and stealing whatever wasn't nailed down.

Why should we forgive people who have done terrible things, haven't apologized, and continue to abuse us and promise further havoc in future?

How can you forgive someone who isn't sorry and keeps telling you they would do it again in a heartbeat?

I assume you're the sort of person who tells battered women that they "galvanized the hate" by leaving, and they should go back and they "bridge the gap" by being a punching bag until the husband magically stops being a psychopath.