I have no idea where you are turning, but there are plenty of fine explanations of it, like this one: "Any consistent formal system F within which a certain amount of elementary arithmetic can be carried out is incomplete; i.e., there are statements of the language of F which can neither be proved nor disproved in F."
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/goedel-incompleteness/
I used to find people like you much funnier and a lot less annoying. After COVID and all these people with zero medical knowledge doing the same thing to epidemiology that you are doing to math, I stopped laughing.
There's a level of arrogant laziness that's hard to stomach. "I'm the greatest logician of all time, modern logic is a hoax!"
The idea that incompleteness is a "hoax" is false to the fact, and insulting to the rest of us who understand mathematical logic. Get help for your delusional beliefs.